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“The Rules for Online Dating: Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right in Cyberspace” is an awesome book and great for anyone starting to date using an online service or coming out of a relationship and using internet dating sites. Ellen Fein is the author of this amazing book. This is a book written by women for women. Their point is simple and straightforward: the woman has to play hard-to-get. She puts very little information in her online profile and never responds to his profile first. When he e-mails her, she waits at least 24 hours before responding. She never answers him on a weekend because he needs to think her life is full of meaningful activity. Her e-mails are short and light, evading answering serious questions such as how her other relationships ended. She never gets involved in Instant Messaging because that makes her too accessible and she could get caught up in the conversation and give out too much information too soon. If he doesn’t ask to meet her in four e-mails or less, she cuts him off and moves on. The idea is that the man must pursue with minimal gratification in order to get him to become serious.
Most of the time the goal seems to be marriage. Giving out too much information or getting too serious too fast will lead the man to go “poof.” A number of the rules make very good sense no matter what your gender. If either party can’t decide to meet within four e-mails, then they are wasting their time. Many books have advised women to take up to a month in e-mail and then maybe another month on the telephone before meeting a man. We think such defensive advice is absurd. Fein and Schneider have a very good chapter on security precautions a woman should take and they are sufficient to put a woman at ease in meeting a man after only four e-mails. From the masculine perspective, Fein and Schneider are too restrictive on women who question traditional gender roles. Nevertheless, most of what they say is practical and, as they know from their consulting practice, leads to good results for women who want the man to take the lead and become committed to a relationship.
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- Name: The Rules for Online Dating: Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right in Cyberspace
- Author: Ellen Fein
- ASIN: 0743451473
- Language: English
- Genre: Dating, Interpersonal Relations, Internet & Telecommunications,
- Format: PDF/ePub
- Page: 256
- Price: Free
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